Keeping your standards high without blowing up the floor.
No one likes getting pulled up in front of their team.
No one likes being the “bad guy” either.
But in a workshop, feedback is part of the job - and when it’s handled badly, it creates tension, resentment, and even silence.
Handled well, it lifts standards and builds trust.
Here’s how to do it right.
The best time to give feedback isn’t when something’s gone off the rails. It’s every day, as part of how you run the shop.
Call things out early and casually. Make it part of the rhythm:
When feedback is expected and routine, it’s not seen as an attack. It’s just part of the job.
There’s a big difference between:
Focus on the action, the impact, and the fix. Not the person’s character.
Good feedback is about standards, not about scoring points.
Even if you’ve been let down - a rework, a mistake, a deadline blown - start neutral.
You don’t need to raise your voice to raise the bar.
Stick to facts. Ask questions. Stay focused on fixing the issue and preventing it next time.
Losing your cool might feel justified, but it usually shuts down learning. If you want it to stick, keep it calm.
No one wants to be called out in front of the team.
If someone’s off the mark, take it offline. A quiet word in the right place goes a lot further than a public spray.
On the other hand - when they nail it, say it loud. Reinforce the wins you want repeated.
The best workshops don’t rely on people guessing what’s expected.
When the expectations are visible and consistent, feedback feels fair - not personal.
Don’t make someone read your mind. Make the standard obvious, then help them get there.
Want people to take your input on board? Show you’re open to theirs.
If feedback only flows one way, it feels like criticism.
If it flows both ways, it feels like improvement.
Strong shops don’t avoid feedback. They make it normal.
They build a culture where calling things out is a sign of care, not conflict.
Because letting things slide doesn’t keep the peace.
It just lowers the standard.